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The differences between ‘I love you’ and ‘I’m in love with you’

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It’s not just a matter of semantics. There’s a big difference between understanding how to say “I’m in love with you” and saying “I love you.”

You could say “I love you” to absolutely anyone. You can say it to your brother, your best friend, and your dog. Loving someone is a great thing, but it is also not purely romantic like saying “I’m in love with you” is.

When you say “I love you” to your partner, you’re letting them know you care about them a great deal, but it doesn’t really convey the intensity of what being in love is all about. This is why saying “I’m in love with you” is much harder than saying “I love you.”

  1. It’s you at your most vulnerable.

Because these two phrases are so different, they have different effects on both you and your partner. If you tell your significant other that you’re in love, it puts you in a much more vulnerable position than you were before. Whereas you could tell 20 people that you love them, you’re telling your partner that they are your one and only.

You’re putting more of yourself on the line. That’s also why when a person is on the receiving end of “I’m in love with you,” it feels different and more powerful.

  1. You give the other person more power over your emotions.

Being in love with someone stirs certain feelings within you. It’s the cliché (but very real) sensation of butterflies. It’s the romantic connection. It’s the complete opening of your heart.

Naturally, letting someone know that they have such incredible access to you and your emotions gives them more power over you. Once you say it, you both know that. That’s part of what makes it so hard to say in the first place, especially if you pride yourself on being an independent person.

  1. You leave yourself open to heartbreak.

Heartbreak can happen if a beloved friendship comes to a close. It can especially happen when someone close to you dies. But anyone who has been heartbroken by a lover knows that that particular brand of incredible pain can tear you apart, sometimes for years.

When you say that you’re in love with someone, you leave yourself open to this possibility. Knowing that it can be extremely scary to utter those words. Even if you know you’re in love, saying it out loud makes it even more real and even more frightening. You’re taking a very high stakes gamble here.

  1. You have to trust.

Because you put yourself in the most vulnerable position when you know how to say “I’m in love with you” and you tell someone, it leaves you no choice but to trust them. For many people, learning to trust is a huge issue because they’ve been hurt or betrayed in the past. When you give your heart to a person, it’s like taking a leap off a ledge and hoping there’s a giant net at the bottom.

  1. You have to confront your fears.

If you’ve been in love before, saying you’re in love with a new person can no doubt bring up old feelings. Whenever someone you love hurts you, it leaves you with a kind of trauma that you will never forget. When a new person comes along, those experiences are right in the forefront of your mind, warning you to be cautious.

You can keep yourself somewhat reserved while dating, but when you decide to say “I’m in love with you,” you throw caution to the wind. It forces you to confront those bad feelings from your past, all the while hoping that this time things will be different.

  1. You completely dedicate yourself to your partner.

When you say you’re in love with someone, you’ve put all your chips on the table. You’ve shown them your hand and you have to hope for the best. You show the person (and are forced to acknowledge yourself) that you are completely devoted to them. There is no taking that back.

A man named Benedict Smith once wrote, “I asked her if she believed in love, and she smiled and said it was her most elaborate method of self-harm.” 

Being in love is both scary and wonderful, terrible and rewarding. But no matter how terrifying it can be and no matter how much you might get hurt, when you find the right person, “I’m in love with you” is worth saying.

You can’t guard yourself forever, and if you do, you close yourself off to an entire world. It may be one of the hardest things you’ll do, but that’s what makes it so meaningful.

Source: myjoyonline.com

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  1. Pidii Morgan

    May 9, 2025 at 10:59

    Then I am in love with Priscilla!

  2. Kwabena Frempong

    May 9, 2025 at 17:14

    Then I’m also in love with Priscilla

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Asantehene’s son to chart future in Astronomy at Wesleyan University

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Oheneba Kwame Kyeretwie, the son of the Asantehene Otumfuo Osei Tutu II, is set to embark on an academic journey in astronomy, having gained admission to Wesleyan University, North Carolina, United States, after graduating from the Delhi Public School (DPS) International in Tema.

The young royal will soon delve into the captivating scientific discipline that explores celestial bodies, the vastness of space, and the fundamental laws governing the physical universe.

The news, initially shared by the social media platform “Ashanti Nation”, highlights a unique academic pursuit, especially given the current educational landscape in Ghana.

As the “Ashanti Nation” account pointed out, “Traditional universities are now getting involved academically but don’t yet offer full degrees in astronomy. KNUST (Kumasi) hosted the first national Astronomy & Space Science Conference in November 2023, signalling growing student interest.”

This underscores the groundbreaking nature of Oheneba Kyeretwie’s chosen field, as formal, dedicated undergraduate programmes in astronomy are largely nascent or non-existent in Ghana’s public higher education institutions.

Ghana’s engagement with space science has been growing, notably through the Ghana Space Science and Technology Institute (GSSTI), established in 2012, and the launch of GhanaSat-1, the country’s first satellite, in 2017.

However, the academic pipeline for pure astronomy remains underdeveloped, making international education a vital pathway for aspiring astrophysicists from the West African nation.

Wesleyan University, a highly selective private liberal arts institution with a competitive acceptance rate, offers a robust programme in this cutting-edge field.

The announcement coincided with Oheneba Kwame Kyeretwie’s graduation day on Saturday, June 21, 2025, an occasion marked by significant attention due to the presence of his esteemed parents, the Asantehene and Lady Julia Osei Tutu.

The young Asanteman prince, who notably served as Head Boy of DPS International Ghana in Tema, Greater Accra Region, was featured in a widely shared video on X (formerly Twitter), capturing his emotions amidst the celebratory atmosphere.

When approached and asked about his feelings on such a momentous day, Nana Kwame Kyeretwie candidly expressed a mix of excitement and nerves.

He responded, “I feel great, but nervous. Everyone is here, and all the cameras are on me.”

His words reflect the immense spotlight that comes with being a member of the revered Ashanti Royal Family, which represents the cultural and traditional authority of the Ashanti Kingdom, home to over 5 million people and a significant economic force in Ghana.

Oheneba Kyeretwie’s pursuit of a degree in Astronomy not only signifies a personal milestone but also resonates with Ghana’s broader push for Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics (STEM) education.

While Ghana has intensified efforts to promote STEM, facing challenges like inadequate infrastructure and teacher training, the royal’s choice of study could serve as a powerful inspiration for countless young Ghanaians to explore unconventional yet critical scientific fields that hold the key to future innovation and global competitiveness.

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Why men with broken heart syndrome are more likely to die, according to experts

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A 59-year-old man arrived at the Peking University First Hospital in Beijing for a procedure when he started having severe chest pain and shortness of breath.

Four months earlier, he had cancerous tumors removed from his bladder. Around his family, he tried his best to appear strong and avoided discussions of his health. Privately, his severe anxiety over the possibility of a cancer recurrence kept him awake at night.

Doctors said the man was experiencing takotsubo cardiomyopathy — also known as broken heart syndrome, as documented in a 2021 case study. The rare stress-induced heart condition has been observed primarily in women, but a study published in the Journal of the American Heart Association in May found that the illness may be more deadly for the men who get it.

Thought to be caused by extreme emotional or physical events — such as learning about the death of a loved one, winning the lottery or lifting a heavy sofa — takotsubo cardiomyopathy, or TC, occurs when the heart muscle is flooded with stress hormones, causing part of it to “freeze” in place. As the heart struggles to properly pump blood, symptoms resemble those of a heart attack, including chest pain, heart palpitations and irregular heartbeat.

The new study analyzed data from nearly 200,000 patients hospitalized for TC in the United States between 2016 and 2020. While women accounted for 83% of the cases, men were more than twice as likely to die from the condition — with a mortality rate of 11.2%.

“The differences between men and women are a very striking finding,” said study coauthor Dr. Mohammad Reza Movahed, a clinical professor of medicine at the University of Arizona in Tucson. “It raises a new, interesting question that should really be studied.”

Broken heart syndrome in men vs.
women

Similar to differences between men’s and women’s cardiovascular health more generally, the discrepancies in TC death rates are not well understood, Movahed said, especially because they counter trends in other heart diseases. It’s widely theorized, however, that differences in hormone levels play a role.

Stressful situations trigger the adrenal glands to release our fight-or-flight hormones, called catecholamines. They are meant to increase our blood pressure and raise our heart rate, but extreme levels can temporarily “stun” cells in the heart’s tissue, leading to TC, Movahed explained.

Men are thought to produce more catecholamines during stressful situations compared with women, possibly leading men to present with more severe cases of TC, he suggested.

Estrogen, a sex hormone produced at higher levels in women, may also have a protective effect on the cardiovascular system, making it easier to manage an extreme influx of catecholamines and reducing the risk of severe complications from TC, said Dr. Louis Vincent, a noninvasive-cardiology research fellow at the University of Miami, who coauthored a similarmultiyear study investigating discrepancies in men and women who had TC. Vincent was not involved in the new study.

Beyond biological differences, social factors may play a role as well.

“Most (physicians) know about takotsubo, but they may think of it as a disease just affecting women, so the diagnosis might be overlooked in men,” said Dr. Deepak Bhatt, a cardiologist and the director of Mount Sinai Fuster Heart Hospital who was not involved in the study. “With misdiagnosis, care is delayed, and that can sometimes lead to worse outcomes.”

Men may also seek care at a later stage of illness, believing that their symptoms are manageable or may pass, said Dr. Alejandro Lemor, an assistant professor of interventional cardiology at the University of Mississippi Medical Center who was also not involved in the study.

Deadly complications from TC include blood clots, stroke, cardiac arrest and heart failure, Lemor said. If the condition is caught early, medications can reduce the risk of having these complications, restore proper heart function and allow for full recovery within weeks, he added.

Higher mortality rates in men need further study

Movahed’s team was able to factor for important variables like age, race, income, chronic lung disease, hypertension and diabetes in the findings.

However, there was no patient data on other comorbid diseases, such as a history of stroke or the presence of a Covid-19 infection, Vincent said.

Additionally, the new study included in-patient diagnostic data only for those hospitalized with TC, so those who received outpatient care or died later from complications outside the hospital were likely not counted in the analysis, Movahed noted.

To establish a firmer explanation for the differences in mortality rates between men and women and further test treatment methods, a more detailed dataset would be needed, Vincent said.

“People should be aware in studies like this, we’re presenting findings that are based on diagnostic codes, and we’re not looking at patient procedures or lab results,” Vincent said. “But it’s powerful in the sense that it lets us look at large populations and look at trends. And I think that this trend of a higher mortality in men is worth taking a deeper look into.”

Don’t try to ‘tough it out’

Sudden, severe chest pain or shortness of breath should always be treated as a medical emergency, warned Bhatt, who is also a professor of cardiovascular medicine at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in New York City.

“It’s not a time to tough it out at home or get on the internet to figure it out. … Don’t try to track down your primary care provider. Call emergency services,” Bhatt said. “Time matters. By winning those few hours, you could save yourself irreparable damage to your heart.”

Symptoms following physical stressors — a common cause of TC in men — should not be ignored, Movahed said, especially preceding medical events such as asthma attacks, seizures or complications from drug use.

And while TC is caused by sudden stress, Bhatt said that managing chronic stress with daily meditation or exercise can lead to better cardiovascular health overall while giving you routines to fall back on in unexpected situations.

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2025 Hajj: Seven Ghanaian pilgrims confirmed dead in Saudi Arabia

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The Ghana Hajj Board has confirmed the deaths of seven Ghanaian pilgrims who participated in the 2025 Hajj in Saudi Arabia.

The deceased include five women and two men.

Although their identities were not disclosed, the Hajj Board has informed the affected families in Ghana and extended condolences on behalf of the nation.

Chairman of the Hajj Board, Alhaji Collins Dauda, addressed the development in an interview with TV3 on Saturday, June 7, describing the deaths as deeply unfortunate.

“Unfortunately, for the 2025 pilgrimage, we have lost seven of our compatriots. Deaths are painful, but death will come when it has to come. We express our deepest condolences to the families back in Ghana who have been affected in this case,” he said.

Alhaji Dauda added that the Board would visit the bereaved families in Ghana at an appropriate time to offer support.

In accordance with Islamic tradition, all seven pilgrims were buried in Saudi Arabia, as is customary for those who pass away during the pilgrimage.

More than 6,000 Ghanaian pilgrims travelled to Mecca in 2025, joining over two million Muslims from across the globe. The Hajj is renowned for its physically demanding rituals, often carried out under extreme temperatures. Reports from Mecca this year indicated heat levels exceeding 48°C, posing serious health risks—especially for the elderly and those with pre-existing conditions.

Despite the severe weather, this year’s death toll reflects significant progress. In 2024, 17 Ghanaian pilgrims died during Hajj, compared to seven this year—a reduction of nearly 59%.

Alhaji Dauda attributed the decline to enhanced health and safety measures implemented in partnership with Saudi authorities. These included pre-departure medical screenings, the deployment of dedicated Ghanaian medical teams, and improved emergency response systems.

Additional steps to prevent heatstroke—such as the provision of hydration points and health advisories—were also introduced to protect pilgrims.

The Ghana Hajj Board reaffirmed its commitment to further improving the safety and well-being of all Ghanaian pilgrims and pledged to continuously review its systems to align with international standards for managing large-scale events under challenging conditions.

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